10 Red Flags or Signs of a Toxic Person
According to 2023 the population of world is now more than 8 billion. 8 billion people on this planet so obviously some of them have good behaviour and some of them are exhibiting bad behaviour and some people are good and bad at the same time.
But there are some people who make you think that they are kind and caring and angel like but in reality they are worse people , who say they like you but in reality they want you to suffer and they want you to see anxious. There actions and the words coming out of their mouth change your mood from happy to sad and depressed. These people are what we call as Toxic Person.
We often end up with people like this but we can not judge them easily but we do get red flags of their toxicity but we are not sure because we doubt ourselves what if we are wrong and the person infront is for real a kind person.
So we are here to tell you about ten red flags or ten signs of a toxic person with toxic thinking.
So let's not waste any more time and we will start our list by telling you the first red flag of a toxic person.
1. It's always about them:
When you end up with a toxic person whether you are arguing or not the toxic person will always find a way to benfit themselves. They will only think about their profit,their satisfaction and their happiness. They will not care about you and will not want you to have the benefit. They will most likely make you believe that they suffered the most and they deserve most of the reward. So next time if you end up with someone who always talks about themselves then you should be alert because it's a red flag of a toxic person.
Moving on to the sign number 2 given by a toxic person
2. They doubt you all the time:
Wanting a proof about something is normal but a toxic person will ask for proof again and again and will ask you some stupid questions which will make you think that they are doubting you and they think your are a dishonest person. They will make you feel like that you are not doing enough or you have secret agenda behind all of your efforts and you are doing it for a secret benefit. They will insist you to say the truth again and again even if you are saying the truth. They will not believe what you are saying no matter how hard you try.
Moving on to the red flag number shown by a toxic person.
3. You will always end up apologizing:
When you are in some sort of relation with a toxic person and after an argument you will realize that you are the only one who is apologizing. Even if it is their fault they will make you apologize. They will make you think that person who is doing wrong is you and not them and will force you to apologize even when they know that the mistake is done by them but they will not care about it. The only thing they will care about is their ego. So if you are always the one who is apologizing you should be alert that you are with someone who has toxic thinking.
Moving on to the red flag number 4 shown by a toxic person
4. Their ego is everything:
The worst problem with a toxic oerson is their eho. They want themselves to be superior and winner in an argument and will not accept defeat. To satisfy their ego they will say anything or will do anything so that their ego is not hurt. They will not even think to apologize or let the argument go. They will try everything and will say anything to make you apologize so that their ego is not hurt and they can enjoy being the superior one. They are so much egoist that they will hurt you again and again and again just for the satisfaction of their ego.
Moving on to the red flag number 5 shown by a toxic person
5. They are always judging you:
So if you are with a person who is toxic you will notice that they are always judging you and they are always trying to find evil and mistakes in you so that they can start an argument. They will start an argument even because of a small mistake. They do not care about the mistake and they also do not care about you they just care sbout thenselves and they want you to feel like a loser. No matter how hard you try and how perfectly you do things they will always find a way to start an argument and they will not even say anything about the other things which you have done perfectly they will only care about that minor mistake.
Moving on to red flag number 6 of a toxic person
6. They always end up being the victim:
Toxic persons are very clever and cunning. They have mastered the art of being victim at the end of argument. They will act victim even when they are the one who did wrong but as it is mentioned that they are so cunning and clever tgey have unlimited words to fool you and make you think that they are victim and they deserve the attention and care and they will make you feel like that you are the one who did wrong but in reality you did not.
Moving on to the sign no 7 shown by a toxic person
7. They are always Lying:
A toxic person has one weapon which helps them to satisfy their ego and win the argument and also end up being the victim which is lying. You can say they have set of lies in their mind which they use to win the argument. They will lie through their teeth even when they know that you know everything they will still lie. They will still make you think that maybe you misunderstood things and once you show them that you are confused it is game over because their lies will now surround your thinking and will make you believe that they are right.
Moving on to red flag number 8 shown by a toxic person which is
8. They never let things go:
A common trait of a toxic person is that they do not let things go. During an argument they will bring up past and will bring up every mistake you did just to win the argument. "Oh yeah! Remember when you did that?" It's something like this which comes up in every argument and then boom the game is in their hands now because they already know what to do and say to win the argument.
Moving on to the sign number 9 of a toxic person
9. One moment they love you but next moment they are different:
So a toxic person will make you feel like that they love you or want you but beware because they have something in their mind which they from you and once you guve them that they will change their colours immediately and will make you feel like that you are not wanted and they do not love you or even care about you.
Moving on to last sign or red flag of this list shown by a toxic person.
10. They do not appreciate you:
No matter how hard you try , no matter how perfectly you do things they will never and never appreciate you or say a nice word to you or maybe they will thank you but in just a cold way. They will make you feel like that everything you did does not matter for them. And they do not care about your efforts.
So if someone is not appreciating you even when you are doing your best then they you should know they are a person with toxic traits.
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